Went food court makan with Dee at suntec and saw this old women at her 70+ working as a cleaner. I waved at her and ask for assistances in clearing the table for me in a very nice way. I show my gratitude for her help but after i said thank you after she had completed the clearing, she just simply ignored me walked to another table and carried on with her job.
On the other hand, I saw some elderly having dinner with their families happily with children and grand children surrounding them.
The next monment, this thing came to my mind...... how will the old cleaner feel if she were to clear the tables where other families is enjoying their 天伦之乐？ For me, i sure cannot take it one....
I felt so sorry for her yet admired her character. Why ?
She does not need to depend on anyone else for living and she has the courage to face so many warm families having meal in the foodcourt everyday. I think we should learn from the cleaner and face the fact of life bravely. Be it ups or downs in life, we should face it, ride it through and solve it.
Thumbs up for the cleaner...*SALUTE
Sunday, November 7, 2010
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
Long time no see
Been too busy with the stupid World Cup and course in SP now.....Lost a alot of my precious time with my baobei bui bui bubu baby.....Must make up with her lo
In fact, i never had a chance in spending time with my loved ones after taking up the post as a full time safety officer. Did I take up the wrong trade?
I still remember when I was still earning 2k + as a regular in the army, I was so carefree and have all the time in the world. So what if I achieve the earning as I have now, seems like I loss something very important in life.
I don't want the same thing what I have done once and regret the rest of my life to happen again.....*the promise to my grandma....And this is something I can never make up with her again.
How to balance my everything in life?? Seems so loss and all things seems to cock up at one go.
My course, my flat, my prospect in this company, my family members bonding and the most important thing....my dee dee's health. If my deedee see my blog I really hope she can go for a full body checkup.....hee.....
When young, so trouble free, so god damn shiok but still you want to grow old faster so as you can do alot of thing that only allow adult to do e.g. smoke la, go club la, bet 4D la...stupid rite?? And guess what??? when you really reach the age where you can do whatever under the sun, you will start to think of how nice to be a kid.
When outside dining with dee and cousins, we saw this old lady clearing the tables in the KFC outlet. Our hearts go with her when we saw that at her age, she suppose to be at home playing with her grand children. However, she still has to limp around and clear tables for us. How I wish I can just give her a hundred dollar and ask her to rest for the day. BUTTTT...how many old ladies can I help ?? Arghs.....the thought of it really make me feel so useless. I really wanted to help but till now I am still sitting around and complain no time for this no time for that (feel like giving myself a tight slap).
I just wish to have more energy and time in life so I can do more meaningful stuff to make the world for the elderly more meaningful.
In fact, i never had a chance in spending time with my loved ones after taking up the post as a full time safety officer. Did I take up the wrong trade?
I still remember when I was still earning 2k + as a regular in the army, I was so carefree and have all the time in the world. So what if I achieve the earning as I have now, seems like I loss something very important in life.
I don't want the same thing what I have done once and regret the rest of my life to happen again.....*the promise to my grandma....And this is something I can never make up with her again.
How to balance my everything in life?? Seems so loss and all things seems to cock up at one go.
My course, my flat, my prospect in this company, my family members bonding and the most important thing....my dee dee's health. If my deedee see my blog I really hope she can go for a full body checkup.....hee.....
When young, so trouble free, so god damn shiok but still you want to grow old faster so as you can do alot of thing that only allow adult to do e.g. smoke la, go club la, bet 4D la...stupid rite?? And guess what??? when you really reach the age where you can do whatever under the sun, you will start to think of how nice to be a kid.
When outside dining with dee and cousins, we saw this old lady clearing the tables in the KFC outlet. Our hearts go with her when we saw that at her age, she suppose to be at home playing with her grand children. However, she still has to limp around and clear tables for us. How I wish I can just give her a hundred dollar and ask her to rest for the day. BUTTTT...how many old ladies can I help ?? Arghs.....the thought of it really make me feel so useless. I really wanted to help but till now I am still sitting around and complain no time for this no time for that (feel like giving myself a tight slap).
I just wish to have more energy and time in life so I can do more meaningful stuff to make the world for the elderly more meaningful.
Friday, April 16, 2010
What is LOVE ??
What is Love??
There are so many unanswered questions to this special word......
= Is love so unpredictable ?
= Is love so irresistable?
= Can human live without love?
= Does loving someone special means that you have to give in unconditionally even though he/she is in the wrong?
= Does love comes with a warranty?
= Does love allows someone loses their mind and do stupid things?
= Can someone control their love for someone/something?
= Can human avoid loving someone or being loved?
= Is it compulsory for human to fall in love?
= If you know that you are giving ways and putting your best effort to create sparks for yours loves one but nobody appreciate it. Do you think you worth it giving out more love?
= Incompatible people being put together, can they create love and make it stronger?
= Does love have generation gaps problem?
= Loving someone whom is difficult better than loving someone whom suits your ways and liking?
= Pleasing someone you love in all ways (be it wrong or right) makes you a better man?
= Can loving someody be simpler?
= How to maintain love?
= How to let love exist without having argument and quarrels?
= How to ensure you are giving 100% love to your partner?
= How to love someone special stronger and deeper each and every day passes?
= Does the word "LOVE" so special that you have to stoop so low and apologise everytime when having fights even though you did nothing wrong?
= When comes to the word "LOVE", sacrifices always a must?
= Can love sustain in a way that 2 person are having different interest and lifestyle?
= Is loving someone means giving the other partner 100% trust and don't even bother to ask or care for their whereabout or doing?
= Can love be just be as innocent as a rare?
See..........so many questions for the special word but nobody on earth can give a definite and appropriate answer to it. Still wondering is there a definition for it or it is just a unexplainable kind of feeling towards someone/something that doesn't even need so much effort in scratching your head what is it by the end of the day.
So people says.......love bring a couple together but understanding breaks a couple. I agreed if the couple could not compromise.
A hand can't clap by itself. You need 2 ways = give and take. If always give and never take, even if you are Casanova, you will break down in time to come.
Girls like to be pampered and this is world known.....but even if they are in the wrong, they deserve to be pampered? Male and Female are equal in the present society, why not the guys get pampered?
Funny rite??
My own feeling towards the word "love" = Love is something comes from your heart, nobody win or lose in quarrel, no bargain who should give more or take more, understand and provide to their "needs" and pamper with their "wants" occasionally, say sorry when you are in the wrong and no leftover night disputes. Most importantly respect each and other by all means and naturally love will turn out to be stronger and deeper than you expect.
There are so many unanswered questions to this special word......
= Is love so unpredictable ?
= Is love so irresistable?
= Can human live without love?
= Does loving someone special means that you have to give in unconditionally even though he/she is in the wrong?
= Does love comes with a warranty?
= Does love allows someone loses their mind and do stupid things?
= Can someone control their love for someone/something?
= Can human avoid loving someone or being loved?
= Is it compulsory for human to fall in love?
= If you know that you are giving ways and putting your best effort to create sparks for yours loves one but nobody appreciate it. Do you think you worth it giving out more love?
= Incompatible people being put together, can they create love and make it stronger?
= Does love have generation gaps problem?
= Loving someone whom is difficult better than loving someone whom suits your ways and liking?
= Pleasing someone you love in all ways (be it wrong or right) makes you a better man?
= Can loving someody be simpler?
= How to maintain love?
= How to let love exist without having argument and quarrels?
= How to ensure you are giving 100% love to your partner?
= How to love someone special stronger and deeper each and every day passes?
= Does the word "LOVE" so special that you have to stoop so low and apologise everytime when having fights even though you did nothing wrong?
= When comes to the word "LOVE", sacrifices always a must?
= Can love sustain in a way that 2 person are having different interest and lifestyle?
= Is loving someone means giving the other partner 100% trust and don't even bother to ask or care for their whereabout or doing?
= Can love be just be as innocent as a rare?
See..........so many questions for the special word but nobody on earth can give a definite and appropriate answer to it. Still wondering is there a definition for it or it is just a unexplainable kind of feeling towards someone/something that doesn't even need so much effort in scratching your head what is it by the end of the day.
So people says.......love bring a couple together but understanding breaks a couple. I agreed if the couple could not compromise.
A hand can't clap by itself. You need 2 ways = give and take. If always give and never take, even if you are Casanova, you will break down in time to come.
Girls like to be pampered and this is world known.....but even if they are in the wrong, they deserve to be pampered? Male and Female are equal in the present society, why not the guys get pampered?
Funny rite??
My own feeling towards the word "love" = Love is something comes from your heart, nobody win or lose in quarrel, no bargain who should give more or take more, understand and provide to their "needs" and pamper with their "wants" occasionally, say sorry when you are in the wrong and no leftover night disputes. Most importantly respect each and other by all means and naturally love will turn out to be stronger and deeper than you expect.
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Parent's LOVE
What on this earth can be greater than Parental's Love ??
I agreed.... Not all parents are good. But if given a choice, I believe they also wanted the best for their kids. When you are young they take care of you. When you have your kids, they still have to take care for your kids on your behalf. Oh god.....What an obligation!!!
Some parents use care and concern tactics to educate their child, some beat and scold to show their love for their kids. So what is the best method to let the child know that their parents care for them?
If you use the wrong method, side effects often leads to kids going astray, taking up wrong route in life or worse ending their life earlier than expected from some illegal activities. So its very important to know what type of kids you are handling......and give them the appropriate ways and methods of education during their growing up stages.
Yesterday i went over to SGH for a normal checkup. While waiting for my number to be called by "over busy" nurses, I reached out to grab a set of newspaper from the chair next to me. I saw this old man on a wheelchair with his face showing agony over his sickness. However, his son whom was behind him waiting to push this poor old man into the consultant room, had a very reluctant face yawning away. Worse thing is that when the old man asked his son something, this "filial" son pretend not to hear his question and looked restlessly from behind.
Put yourself in this old man's shoes......how much effort you have put in taking care of this kid since he was born till now with this "BO CHAP" altitude towards his own father. Sad rite !!!!
I came across this real life story told by my China friend at work....He told me this:
In China, there is this kid who was born with very violent character. No matter how much effort put in in educating this child, he is just out to create havoc at home. When he grew up, gambling, borrowing money from loanshark, stealing, raping and robbery become his way of living. He even pointed a knife at his mother's neck for money at the age of 21. Eventually he became the village's public enemy. Wherever he goes, poeple either scare of him or avoid him from a distance. his father knew that in future, he will cause harm to the soicety and gadually lost his life to someone or some situation. His father killed him in one of the night where he was fast asleep. he was buried at the backyard of the house and this thing was kept secret until he was called for national voting. His father own up everything and faced death penalty in return.
His father rather killed his own son than having himself killed by the law or bringing harm to other people.
So morale of the story is...
Parents' love in this world is just like the depth of the ocean. No matter what treatment or methods used on the child, it meant well. Love and cherish them when they are around. Even if they scold or beat you, look it from another angle. It may not be a bad thing after all.
I agreed.... Not all parents are good. But if given a choice, I believe they also wanted the best for their kids. When you are young they take care of you. When you have your kids, they still have to take care for your kids on your behalf. Oh god.....What an obligation!!!
Some parents use care and concern tactics to educate their child, some beat and scold to show their love for their kids. So what is the best method to let the child know that their parents care for them?
If you use the wrong method, side effects often leads to kids going astray, taking up wrong route in life or worse ending their life earlier than expected from some illegal activities. So its very important to know what type of kids you are handling......and give them the appropriate ways and methods of education during their growing up stages.
Yesterday i went over to SGH for a normal checkup. While waiting for my number to be called by "over busy" nurses, I reached out to grab a set of newspaper from the chair next to me. I saw this old man on a wheelchair with his face showing agony over his sickness. However, his son whom was behind him waiting to push this poor old man into the consultant room, had a very reluctant face yawning away. Worse thing is that when the old man asked his son something, this "filial" son pretend not to hear his question and looked restlessly from behind.
Put yourself in this old man's shoes......how much effort you have put in taking care of this kid since he was born till now with this "BO CHAP" altitude towards his own father. Sad rite !!!!
I came across this real life story told by my China friend at work....He told me this:
In China, there is this kid who was born with very violent character. No matter how much effort put in in educating this child, he is just out to create havoc at home. When he grew up, gambling, borrowing money from loanshark, stealing, raping and robbery become his way of living. He even pointed a knife at his mother's neck for money at the age of 21. Eventually he became the village's public enemy. Wherever he goes, poeple either scare of him or avoid him from a distance. his father knew that in future, he will cause harm to the soicety and gadually lost his life to someone or some situation. His father killed him in one of the night where he was fast asleep. he was buried at the backyard of the house and this thing was kept secret until he was called for national voting. His father own up everything and faced death penalty in return.
His father rather killed his own son than having himself killed by the law or bringing harm to other people.
So morale of the story is...
Parents' love in this world is just like the depth of the ocean. No matter what treatment or methods used on the child, it meant well. Love and cherish them when they are around. Even if they scold or beat you, look it from another angle. It may not be a bad thing after all.
Sunday, March 28, 2010
10 years of life
Can always heard from drama series ====> How many 10 years a person can have in life ??
Lucky ones may have 12 but how many in this world ?
Average life span of a normal person is 7 to 8 decades.
For the first 10 years = baby to kids to receiving primary education ( So blur blur gone)
The next 2nd 10 years = secondary to poly/University (cheong for studies + puppy love = also blur blur gone)
The next 3rd 10 years = Unviersity to army to just starting of career (Prime period) (Time passes very fast when it is enjoyable)
4th 10 years = establishing of career to getting married to having kids (Thats when you wake up)
5th 10 years = focus on maintaining of small family of yours + sending your kids to school
6th 10 years = about to retire and collecting of CPF + kids just finishes secondary education (busy with their up growing stage)
7th 10 years = attending your kids wedding + tour around the world with ur partner (if they are still around)
8th 10 years (if you are lucky) = go hospital for treatment (when ur engine starts to give u problem) + attending ur friend/ relative funeral
9th 10 years = probably you are gone.......................
Seems like a routine man's life can be described by a few sentences like what I did. SAD rite
So morale of the story is :
Always treasure what is right before your eyes because once you passed that station you wont find that shop again.
Lucky ones may have 12 but how many in this world ?
Average life span of a normal person is 7 to 8 decades.
For the first 10 years = baby to kids to receiving primary education ( So blur blur gone)
The next 2nd 10 years = secondary to poly/University (cheong for studies + puppy love = also blur blur gone)
The next 3rd 10 years = Unviersity to army to just starting of career (Prime period) (Time passes very fast when it is enjoyable)
4th 10 years = establishing of career to getting married to having kids (Thats when you wake up)
5th 10 years = focus on maintaining of small family of yours + sending your kids to school
6th 10 years = about to retire and collecting of CPF + kids just finishes secondary education (busy with their up growing stage)
7th 10 years = attending your kids wedding + tour around the world with ur partner (if they are still around)
8th 10 years (if you are lucky) = go hospital for treatment (when ur engine starts to give u problem) + attending ur friend/ relative funeral
9th 10 years = probably you are gone.......................
Seems like a routine man's life can be described by a few sentences like what I did. SAD rite
So morale of the story is :
Always treasure what is right before your eyes because once you passed that station you wont find that shop again.
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